Monday, June 30, 2008
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Church
He did okay yesterday at church during First Aid/CPR training. We think he got a little over stimulated though. They played the song "Staying Alive" for us to use as the beat for compressions during CPR. "Uncle" Adam danced around with him during this song, and he started to get a little cranky. Barry fed him and he did not go off to sleep like usual. Once we got home he was awake for 3 hours screaming. He finally settled down around 4:30 P.M. and still wouldn't go to sleep. He finally decided to rest but only in my arms. Which was okay but meant I got nothing done last night. Oh well! Some days are going to be like that.
Daddy did night duty again last night. It was wonderful. I never heard James, until I heard Barry at 3:00 A.M. calling for me on the monitor. James had lost his umbilical cord, and Barry needed help cleaning the belly button. He has a very cute belly button.
Well, our little one is stirring in his car seat (where he has been since we got home from church)...we didn't want to wake him. It is about time to eat again. Enjoy your Sunday everyone!
Saturday, June 28, 2008
First Big Outing
It was nice to finally be out of the house. Of course, it made for a very long evening last night, because someone had slept all afternoon in his car seat. He was also a little warm...might have something to do with it being 90 degrees outside. Daddy did nighttime duty last night so that mommy could get some sleep. It was wonderful. James slept pretty good last night for daddy. We have to wake him up here very shortly to head off to church for First Aid/CPR training. Adam plans to babysit during the training...I'm sure he can't wait.
We hope to go to church tomorrow for services. I'm a little anxious to see how James does with the music. He doesn't mind loud noises, so we hope he does well. We plan to sit towards the back, so if he gets fussy I can leave with him and calm him down. He will probably sleep through the whole thing.
Well, we will post again soon with new pics. I am working on taking new pics to send to Angie for baby dedication Sunday. My hope is to get some good ones today to send...so, I will update you all soon as well.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Two Weeks Old
Sea Ray laid a 48 people off at Barry's plant today. He called this morning and said he was safe. According, to the news reports they are planning to close 4 plants very soon. We are pretty positive it won't be Barry's plant since his sits on corporate grounds. We just hope he continues to survive the rounds of layoffs. Brunswick is now waiting to see how many people don't return after the month long furlough to determine if anymore layoffs will be necessary. Please pray that they won't lay him off until after I go back to school and am collecting a paycheck, if they do at all.
Well, we will update again soon. Until then enjoy this beautiful summer heat.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Back from Daddy Doctor
We will update again soon.
Sick Daddy
Barry called me from work this morning at 6:30 A.M. asking if I was feeling okay. I told him yes, but I hadn't been out of bed but to feed James. Apparently, he woke up this morning not feeling well. He said he was very wobbly and almost fell off the toilet. He decided to eat something and go to work. He made it to work...not real sure how, but he didn't feel any better. Luckily, he was finished when he left work yesterday, so he was just waiting on the boats to roll. He laid down and felt even worse, so he went to the nurse they have on staff. He called me at 7:00 A.M. and asked me to come pick him up, because he knew he couldn't drive home. So, daddy is now in bed sleeping, and we are trying to keep James away from him. We don't want James to get anything. Barry says he feels like he has the flu. The nurse at Sea Ray told him there is a strain of flu going around right now even though it isn't flu season. Great....that's all we need with a newborn. Daddy goes to the doctor at 2:00 P.M. I guess I will have to take him, since his truck is still at Sea Ray. We are hoping that he feels better later to go get his truck, or I will have to take him to work at 5:00 A.M. tomorrow morning...won't that be fun with an infant that is usually sleeping at that time. Oh well...the things you do for the people you love.
James is doing well on formula. We have had a little spit up after some feedings...just a few drops. He is extremely fussy in the evenings, so Dr. Hodge suggested Mylacon drops in his formula during the afternoon feedings to help with the fussy evenings. Barry stopped on his way home yesterday and picked some up, so we will try that today. Otherwise he seems to be doing okay. He is sleeping pretty regularly now. I am still waking him up in the middle of the night for a feeding, because that is what Dr. Harsh and Dr. Hodge want me to do so he doesn't lose anymore weight. I didn't mention it the other day, but he was up to 8 lbs. 14 oz. on Monday when we were at the pediatrician for the projectile puking. Yeah! Above birth weight finally.
Well, I guess that's all from here in our neck of the world. I will keep you posted. Off to check on Barry while James sleeps. Barry's been sleeping for 2 hours now...must be nice.
Monday, June 23, 2008
Back to the Doctor
The conversation with the lactation consultant was lengthy this morning. We didn't end up having to go down to the hospital to see her after our conversation. She did a history with me and through the conversation and various questions/answers she determined that I am probably in that 3-5% of women that do not produce breast milk. She said there is a device that I can attach to the breast that formula is fed through that he could nurse that way for as long as I was up to it. I told her that since he was already being supplemented it would just be easier for us and less expensive (device isn't cheap) to do the bottle feeding. She was very supportive and said that he had gotten a good bit of my anitbodies from the colustrum before it changed over to the transitional milk. Her concern is that when pumping for 20 minutes I am getting nothing but a few drops. She said that tells her that he isn't getting anything either. She wants me to try pumping when he has not nursed to see what I get. This will be a good indicator of what he was getting. She was very concerned that I never had the heavy feeling or engorgement. This is another sign that I do not produce milk. So, we are now formula feeding James. He seems to be doing okay with it. I am glad that we tried the breastfeeding, but I think it is for the better that we switch to just formula. This way we know exactly what he is getting and won't go through what happened this morning.
Well, I have a little one beckoning. I will keep you all posted. Thanks Megan for hanging out with us today and going to the doctor. We enjoyed it. Enjoy your Monday everyone!
Sunday, June 22, 2008
First Outing
We ventured out of the house yesterday for the first time. We had to go downtown to Fort Sanders to rent a breast pump. It doesn't seem to be helping that much. I'm still only getting very little milk out with it. When I talked to the lactation consultant on Friday, she said she had never run into a woman that just didn't produce milk. Well, it would seem I'm not producing milk. We aren't giving up yet. She said it could just be delayed. So, for now we are nursing, pumping and supplementing. It should be interesting when Barry returns to work tomorrow. I have to call and go in to see the lactation consultant tomorrow. They want to watch James nurse to see if there are any suggestions they can give us, because he seems very uninterested in nursing at times. We'll keep you posted.
After our adventure to Fort Sanders, we came home and rested for a little while. Then we ventured out again to visit Uncle Arthur, Aunt Gwen, cousin Egan, and cousin Quinlin at the KOA in Pigeon Forge. They had pulled their camper up there for the weekend, so we went to visit for dinner. James slept through dinner and then woke up to nurse after dinner. We took a walk down to the Dollywood Marketing building to see the train. Egan enjoyed the walk. James screamed through most of it. We're not sure if he was still hungary or just hot. It was a little muggy outside. We then walked back to the campground and decided to come home after watching Egan roast marshmallows and finally eat his dinner off a stick (chicken on a stick). Whatever works! We enjoyed our outing.
Today, we are just hanging out at home. Grandma and Grandpa left Friday evening to stop over at Aunt Wendy and Uncle Kevin's before going home to Pennsylvania. We enjoyed their visit and all the help. We hope to see them again real soon. Daddy's working on laundry before going back to work tomorrow and watching Nascar on TV with his new little buddy.
We will update again later this week after our visit with the lactation consultant and the peditrician on Tuesday for a weight check. Enjoy your Sunday!
Friday, June 20, 2008
Good visit
Barry goes back to work on Monday instead of taking the second week of FMLA. Sea Ray is doing a month furlough of all production workers to try and avoid layoffs. He will work next week and then be off until July 28, 2008. We are a little nervous, but we know God has a plan for all this. The good thing is Sea Ray is paying all medical and dental insurance for the month, so we will not loose our medical coverage. He will be able to collect unemployment, but his unemployment won't be any where near what he brings home every two weeks.
I am feeling okay. We had to call the doctor on call last night. Luckily, it was Dr. Broady. I have been bleeding more and more. He wants us to watch the bleeding today and if it doesn't slow down to call the office and come in before the weekend. He said the amount I have is not normal. I didn't think it was normal, and Barry didn't like the amount. I have been a little more active than I was at the beginning of the week. I am beginning to get cabin fever. I'm not used to being in the house all day long every day. Thank goodness we have been able to get out of the house to visit the pediatrician.
Well, I guess that's all for this morning in our little world. We will update again soon.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Almost one week old
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Second Visit
I am feeling much better. The headache is completely gone for the most part and my neck has stopped bothering me. I am still taking the motrin on its regular schedule to prevent the pain from coming back. I hope to begin tapering it off towards the end of this week. At least I am not on any major pain medication, since I can't take the hydrocodone.
Thank you for all your prayers and well wishes. Please visit with us when you can.
We will update again soon.
Monday, June 16, 2008
First Doctor Visit
I am feeling some better today. We discovered last night that I am allergic to hydrocodone. Which is the pain medication they prescribed for me to take when I got home. I had every side affect listed on the paperwork from the pharmacy. So, I called the doctor, and he told me to quit taking it immediately and take a benedryl to counteract the affects it was having on me. So, I am now just down to the motrin. My neck is feeling better. I still have a slight headache, but they said that could last up to a week. I think some of the headache is pure exhaustion. I am only getting a handful of hours of sleep each day and didn't sleep but a few hours the whole time we were in the hospital. Barry is doing okay. He is exhausted as well, but we are getting through it. His parents arrived yesterday afternoon to help us out for the week. We appreciate it greatly. He and his mom have headed out to Sea Ray to drop off important paperwork for James to be added to our insurance and then to Krogers to get some food. We had pretty much nothing in the house to eat. Grandpa is sleeping in the recliner while James sleeps on me. We have worn Grandma and Grandpa out since they arrived. Grandma is enjoying every bit of James. She loves to hold him. Grandpa is keeping Joey busy and therefore Joey isn't bothering Baby James at times when he shouldn't be.
Well, I guess that is all from our little neck of the woods for today. We are expecting some visitors later today. We will post new pictures later and an update tomorrow after the doctor.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
We're home
Here he is ready to come home in his brand new car seat. We had to have the nurse come make sure we had him in it tight enough. We were finally able to leave the hospital around noon yesterday. It felt so good to be coming home.
I am still very sore. I let the pain medication wear off, because I thought it was making me feel funny. Only to find out that I have pinched a nerve in my neck that goes real well with the pulled muscles from delivery that we discovered yesterday morning once the spinal headache was gone. So, now I am trying to get the pain medication back on a normal schedule and into my body. There isn't much more we can do for the neck accept the medicine and heat. Dr. Shine said had we caught it on Friday we could have put ice on it to keep the swelling down., but we didn't know I was having problems due to the intense pain from the spinal headache. Go figure!
We had a very rough first night home. James fed every half hour to hour for almost 8 hours. Then he finally has gotten back on the schedule from the hospital. We hope that my milk is beginning to come in. We go to see the pediatrician for the first time tomorrow. Hopefully all will be well. We will keep you updated.
Barry's parents will be here this afternoon to spend the week with their first grandchild. We can't wait.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Master James has arrived

Wednesday, June 11, 2008
We went to the doctor
We'll blog when we return home.
Thought he would come last night
Well, we will post again after James arrives. It probably won't be until the end of the weekend. Hopefully, I will be able to figure out how to put pictures on by that time.
Monday, June 9, 2008
We have a date
I went to see Dr. Broady this morning. The poor guy has been on vacation for the last week and was on call today. He was on call the last day he worked before vacation. Anyway, I had to wait a little while because he was over in the hospital doing rounds. When he finally got there he came to me first. He checked my cervix, and I am now dialated to 3 centimeters. Nothing else has changed his head is still where it was on Friday, and I have not thinned anymore. So, he asked how ready I was for this little guy to come into this world. I told him I was beyond ready. He looked at his handy dandy phone (which he keeps his on call schedule on) and decided that he would induce on Thursday morning (since he's on call again). He doesn't want to take the chance of Sir James growing any bigger than he already is at this point. So, the wonderful scheduler, Lori, called over to the hospital and scheduled us for the induction. Yeah! So, now we wait for Thursday morning. James may come on his own but at this point Dr. Broady is not so sure.
I am getting more and more excited as the days grow closer. Barry can't wait either. He will be a dad for Father's Day. Too bad we will just be coming home from the hospital, so I won't have time to get him a gift. I'm sure he will understand. So as of now on June 12th, Barry and I should be parents for the first time.
We will keep you all posted over the next few days.
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Another week down
Barry spent yesterday morning working in the yard until it got to hot. He finished the one flower bed with new mulch. It only involved a second trip to Lowe's for more top soil and more mulch.
I rested up while he worked for the wedding that we attended in the afternoon. It was a very hot, outdoor wedding at the beautiful Case Farm right on the French Broad River. The wedding was for our friends, Adam and Megan. Adam is our children's minister at church, and since I sit on the Children's Ministry team I really wanted to be there for their nuptuals. I don't know how those guys stood the heat in their black suits, but they managed some how. Megan was a beautiful bride. We didn't get any pictures, because I forgot the camera. It's packed in the suitcase for the hospital, so we don't forget it. The reception was wonderful, since it was air conditioned. As I type Megan and Adam are off for their honeymoon. Megan has no idea where they are going, which I think is wonderful. She will love it when they get there.
Today, we went to first service at church, since I was already up early this morning. I have been up early the last two mornings. Arthur and Gwen are on their way over with the boys for the afternoon. It will be good to spend some time with them. Egan will get to play with his Thomas trains for the first time in a few weeks.
We are still playing the waiting game. I actually feel pretty good. James kicked a lot during service this morning. I'm not having very strong contractions. Well, let's put it this way if I am I haven't noticed. Dr. Kincaid said I would know when I was in active labor. I go back to see Dr. Broady first thing tomorrow morning. It should be interesting to see if I have progressed anymore. We will keep you all posted.
Enjoy your Sunday!
Friday, June 6, 2008
Doctor Says....
Dr. Kincaid is a wonderful man. I am 1 1/2 centimeters dialated, 50% effaced, and stage -1. We like those numbers. I go back to see Dr. Broady on Monday morning at 8:45 A.M. Dr. Kincaid seems to believe that Dr. Broady will induce on Thursday, June 12th, but he didn't want to make that decision for Dr. Broady. He had already done that once this morning for another one of Dr. Broady's patients. Dr. Kincaid apologized for the pain when doing the check, because Mr. James's head is right there at the cervix which meant he was somewhat pushing on him. Dr. Kincaid is on-call this weekend, so he said if I go into labor this weekend it will be him delivering. We would be fine with that. Barry likes the sounds of a 6-7-08 baby.
We spent a good bit of yesterday evening tying up loose ends and making sure all the bills that we had were paid. We also cleaned up a little around the house. We didn't want anyone to have to come into the house for something while in the hospital and think we lived like pigs. It had gotten a little cluttered with all the new shower gifts and school stuff. Now, everything is back in its place and the house is tidy. As I type Barry is emptying and reloading the dishwasher. He also started a load of laundry. Which is a good thing, we may need some clothes to wear this coming week.
Well, that is our update for now. We will keep you posted.
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Not so Bored!
I didn't get any scrapbooking done today, but I did get the rest of the school shower gifts put away for the time being and made a delicious dinner for Barry. Crock pots are a wonderful invention I have decided. I got some Girl Scout stuff done that has needed to be done for awhile and planned a little for next girl scout year.
Well, nothing has changed as far as we can tell with James. We go see Dr. Kincaid tomorrow. Hopefully, I will be dialated something.
We have a big Saturday planned. Our friends little boy is turning 8 and having his party at Dollywood's Splash Country. So, we will be attending that for a little while. Then our children's minister and fiance is getting married at 3:45 at the same place we had our outdoor wedding pictures taken. I'm sure it will be beautiful, but it is supposed to be 95 degrees on Saturday afternoon. I told Adam today that I didn't know if we would make the wedding, but we would definitely be at the reception depending on the heat. He understood completely.
Well, I will blog again tomrrow after our visit with the doctor.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Walking...walking...walking
Tomorrow is the last official day of school. My grade cards are stuffed and in my mailbox awaiting my arrival at 7:00 A.M. for distribution. We'll see how many kids actually get up and come and get them in the morning. The ones that don't get picked up have to be mailed. So, I spent the morning addressing envelopes so as not to have to do it tomorrow. The sooner I can get out of there the better. They announced today unofficially who is our new principal. It is our current assistant principal. He seems to have lots of good ideas, but I don't think some people are going to be to happy with him trying to keep academic time as close to the state requirements as possible. I think it is a great start that has been needed for a long time. Not that my current principal hasn't done a great job, but things have been very lax this year when it came to academic time on task. I still have no idea what I'm teaching next year, but I have had a heart to heart with the new principal. He understands who I want to work with and what I want to teach. He and I discussed it yesterday. He agreed with my argument for a 2 hour language arts block to better teach the English, Reading and Spelling the way our new textbooks are set up to be taught. He has agreed at this point to allow me to have two 2 hour blocks of language arts next year and then teach my own homeroom Science. It should be interesting. He is going to attempt to go back to the team concept we have been in in sixth grade up until this school year.
My shower at school today was a great success. They have all decided that sixth grade knows how to throw a party. The food was great and Baby James recieved lots of great gifts to welcome him into this world. Daddy has already managed to put the swing together and gone through all the other gifts since he has been home this evening. I think he enjoys the gifts more than anybody.
So, as another school year wraps up I am reminded that Barry and I have been out of high school 15 years this year. Boy it doesn't seem like it has been that long. It also means Barry and I have known each other for 15 years. Someone commented today that it seems like just yesterday they were throwing us a wedding shower at school. When I commented that it had been almost two years since we were married, they were amazed that it had been that long. Boy how time flies when your having fun.
Well, enjoy the rest of the week. We will probably not blog again until after the doctors on Friday.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
Three days and counting....
I dread Thursday home by myself. This is the first time in I don't know how long that I have no actual summer job to keep me busy at least until James arrives. My good friend, Angie, has graciously volunteered to come scrapbook with me if she doesn't have to work at the church. Barry doesn't want me venturing to far from home by myself in case I was to go into labor. That probably is a smart idea.
We have achieved a milestone that we never thought we'd see. I CAN ACTUALLY PARK IN THE GARAGE!!! It is so cool. I think this is the first time I have ever parked in a garage. I am looking forward to this winter when I won't have to scrape my windows or warm up the car before heading off to daycare and work. We still don't have Barry's truck in the garage and there is no telling when we will achieve that milestone, but he is okay with parking outside for now. With my car in the garage, he says it will be easier for him to back out now in the morning without taking out the new trees or hitting my car.
Speaking of new trees. Barry has been very busy this weekend working in our yard. He planted two new shade trees on the one side of the house to give us some shade and privacy from our neighbor. He also planted three bushes around Joey's kennel, so he will have some shade when the sun is out all day long. We noticed about a week ago that he only had one corner of his kennel that was shaded during the heat of the day. We also purchased new plants for the walkway flower bed along with mulch to go around them. Once that project is done, Barry plans to mulch the flower bed where my beautiful yellow rose bushes are growing. I will have to get out and take some pictures of the house to add to the blog. That is once I figure out how to post pictures.
Well, I am off to find something else to occupy my time this evening, plus I am getting kicked pretty hard at the moment in between braxton hicks. We will blog again soon. Have a great week everyone!